What a difference!
The male I dated a few years ago, who is now married after dumping me via text, is so night and day different from the man I am currently dating. TS used to complain how women only wanted him to help pay the bills. He'd complain that women wanted a paycheck to help pay the college bills and that women always expected men to pay. As such, I found myself trying to prove him wrong. I'd pay for things more often than necessary. I was generous with gifts. I bought him a washer and drier for his new house. I also had to ask him for a thank you, as he didn't offer one on his own.
Fast forward a few years. I am dating a man who wants to be with me. He wants to help me around the house, as he sees how hard I work around the clock. He wants to help me in every way possible. When I told him my son has chosen the University he is attending next school year as a freshman, he even said he was looking forward to helping me pay for my son's education. Holy Crap! Is my guy for real? Does he WANT to help me pay for college? I never asked him to do this and it's just blown me away.
Sure, I know I shouldn't compare apples to oranges, but the difference is just so darn huge. I wanted to say how much I appreciate my new guy and the things he freely is giving to me, without me having to prove myself or my motives. And without asking. He's amazing.
The male I dated a few years ago, who is now married after dumping me via text, is so night and day different from the man I am currently dating. TS used to complain how women only wanted him to help pay the bills. He'd complain that women wanted a paycheck to help pay the college bills and that women always expected men to pay. As such, I found myself trying to prove him wrong. I'd pay for things more often than necessary. I was generous with gifts. I bought him a washer and drier for his new house. I also had to ask him for a thank you, as he didn't offer one on his own.
Fast forward a few years. I am dating a man who wants to be with me. He wants to help me around the house, as he sees how hard I work around the clock. He wants to help me in every way possible. When I told him my son has chosen the University he is attending next school year as a freshman, he even said he was looking forward to helping me pay for my son's education. Holy Crap! Is my guy for real? Does he WANT to help me pay for college? I never asked him to do this and it's just blown me away.
Sure, I know I shouldn't compare apples to oranges, but the difference is just so darn huge. I wanted to say how much I appreciate my new guy and the things he freely is giving to me, without me having to prove myself or my motives. And without asking. He's amazing.
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